{"id":8414,"date":"2020-06-07T13:05:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T10:05:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=8414"},"modified":"2020-06-07T13:05:46","modified_gmt":"2020-06-07T10:05:46","slug":"erkekyerinibilsin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2020\/06\/erkekyerinibilsin\/","title":{"rendered":"#erkekyerinibilsin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcn Twitter \u00e7ok yerinde ve <em>\u2018Bunu nas\u0131l daha \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemedik?\u2019<\/em> dedirten bir ak\u0131ma \u015fahit oldu. ruqinq adl\u0131 Twitter kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n <strong><em>\u2018Kocam isterse \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir\u2019<\/em><\/strong> c\u00fcmlesi ile ba\u015flayan ve #erkekyerinibilsin hashtag\u2019i ile devam eden kad\u0131nlarla ilgili c\u00fcmleleri tersine \u00e7evirme fikri binlerce kullan\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 ile \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc ve Twitter\u2019da trend topics k\u0131sm\u0131nda zirveyi uzun s\u00fcre korudu.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2018Erkek i\u00e7in en iyi meslek \u00f6\u011fretmenlik\u2019, \u2018Kad\u0131n\u0131n elinin kiri\u2019, \u2018Doktor han\u0131m, ay pardon doktor bey\u2019, \u2018Poposu yere yak\u0131n erkekten korkacaks\u0131n\u2019 , \u2018Erke\u011fi bo\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131rsan ya davulcuya var\u0131r ya zurnac\u0131ya\u2019, \u2018Erkekten m\u00fchendis olmaz\u2019, \u2018Erkekler i\u00e7in mavi otob\u00fcs uygulamam\u0131z \u00e7ok yak\u0131nda\u2019 , \u2018Erkeklerde do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi liderlik vasf\u0131 yoktur\u2019<\/em> bu ak\u0131mda kurulan c\u00fcmlelerden sadece birka\u00e7\u0131yd\u0131. Ke\u015fke sadece at\u0131lan birer twit olsayd\u0131 tabii bunlar, h\u00e2lbuki tam tersi <strong>herhangi bir kad\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131radan bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn son derece s\u0131radan birer par\u00e7as\u0131 hepsi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>C\u00fcmleler arka arkaya ak\u0131\u015fta yer almaya ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sadece \u00fc\u00e7 d\u00f6rt saat sonra \u2018\u00d6ff s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131k\u2019, \u2018Tamam anlad\u0131k art\u0131k komik de\u011filsiniz\u2019 tepkileri gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu erkek olan kullan\u0131c\u0131lardan. Zaten kimse komik olmay\u0131 ama\u00e7lam\u0131yordu, ortada en ufak bir \u015faka, abartma ya da hi\u00e7 var olmam\u0131\u015f bir c\u00fcmle yoktu. Onun yerine d\u00f6rt saat bile tahamm\u00fcl edilmesi zor c\u00fcmleleri bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca duyarak ya\u015fayan milyonlarca kad\u0131n vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6t\u00fc park edilmi\u015f bir araba g\u00f6r\u00fcnce kurulan <em>\u2018Kesin kad\u0131n \u015fof\u00f6rd\u00fcr\u2019<\/em> c\u00fcmlesi ile <em>\u2018Kesin erkek \u015fof\u00f6rd\u00fcr\u2019<\/em> aras\u0131nda teknik olarak hi\u00e7bir fark yok mesela ama hi\u00e7 kimse ne ikinci c\u00fcmleyi kurar ne de ilkini yad\u0131rgar. <em>\u2018Kar\u0131m ben yan\u0131ndayken ne isterse giyebilir ama ben yokken dikkatli olacak\u2019<\/em> c\u00fcmlesi ile <em>\u2018Kocam ben yan\u0131ndayken ne isterse giyebilir ama ben yokken dikkatli olacak\u2019<\/em> c\u00fcmlesi aras\u0131nda da ne yazarken ne de okurken hi\u00e7bir fark yok, yine de ikincisi tarihte hi\u00e7 duyulmad\u0131 ve ilkini hi\u00e7 yad\u0131rgam\u0131yoruz. C\u00fcmleler aras\u0131ndaki tek fark kad\u0131nlar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren c\u00fcmlelerin y\u00fcz y\u0131llard\u0131r kurulmas\u0131, s\u00f6ylenmesi ve bir noktada neredeyse tek ger\u00e7ek kabul edilmesi.<\/p>\n<p>Belki daha \u00f6nce bunu defalarca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz, belki bu ak\u0131m her \u015feyi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmek i\u00e7in ilk defa bir f\u0131rsat oldu bilmiyorum ama l\u00fctfen kurdu\u011fumuz c\u00fcmlelere dikkat edelim, l\u00fctfen a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131z duysun. <em>\u2018Aman can\u0131m bundan da ne olacak?\u2019<\/em> demeden kelimelerimizi do\u011fru se\u00e7elim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz ne ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z oluyor bazen. Kad\u0131n \u015fof\u00f6rlerin ger\u00e7ekten erkeklerden daha beceriksiz oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131\u015fken buluyoruz kendimizi mesela ya da fark\u0131nda bile olmadan \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz sanmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f\u0131z kendimizi bir bak\u0131yoruz ki. E\u015fitlik hem dilimizde hem de ger\u00e7ekten hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tam orta yerinde olsun dilerim.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022<\/p>\n<p>Photo by\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@felixmittermeier?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">Felix Mittermeier<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/blue-and-purple-cosmic-sky-956999\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h6><\/h6>\n<h6>Dijital Topuklar&#8217;da yaz\u0131lan yaz\u0131lar, yazar\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve fikirlerini yans\u0131tmakta olup, Dijital Topuklar&#8217;\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini temsil etmeyebilir.<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcn Twitter \u00e7ok yerinde ve \u2018Bunu nas\u0131l daha \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemedik?\u2019 dedirten bir ak\u0131ma \u015fahit oldu. ruqinq adl\u0131 Twitter kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u2018Kocam isterse \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir\u2019 c\u00fcmlesi ile ba\u015flayan ve #erkekyerinibilsin hashtag\u2019i ile devam eden kad\u0131nlarla ilgili c\u00fcmleleri tersine \u00e7evirme fikri binlerce kullan\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 ile \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc ve Twitter\u2019da trend topics k\u0131sm\u0131nda zirveyi uzun s\u00fcre korudu. \u2018Erkek i\u00e7in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":8416,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[15,41],"tags":[260],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8414"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8414\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8416"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}