{"id":8255,"date":"2020-04-17T18:46:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-17T15:46:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=8255"},"modified":"2020-04-17T18:46:34","modified_gmt":"2020-04-17T15:46:34","slug":"duzeltmeyin-sadece-dinleyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2020\/04\/duzeltmeyin-sadece-dinleyin\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00fczeltmeyin, sadece dinleyin!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hen\u00fcz \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi burnunda bir \u00f6\u011fretmen aday\u0131 iken staja gitti\u011fim okullardan birinde bir aktivite yapt\u0131rmam gerekiyordu. \u00c7ocuklarla dolu bir s\u0131n\u0131fta neyi nas\u0131l yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 tam kestiremedi\u011fim o d\u00f6nemde uygulamas\u0131 kolay ve mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 basit bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma se\u00e7tim. \u00c7ok<br \/>\nda yarat\u0131c\u0131 olmayan bir \u015fekilde- \u00e7ocuklardan hayvanlar\u0131 havada karada ve denizde ya\u015fayan hayvanlar olarak gruplamas\u0131n\u0131 istedim. \u00c7ocuklar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlarken, ben de masalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda dola\u015f\u0131p \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 inceliyor ve \u00e7ocuklara geri bildirim<br \/>\nveriyordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7lerinden birinin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 hemen dikkatimi \u00e7ekti. D\u00f6rt ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00f6\u011frencim b\u00fct\u00fcn hayvanlar\u0131 do\u011fru grupland\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, sadece \u2018timsah\u0131\u2019 havada ya\u015fayan hayvanlar grubuna koymu\u015ftu. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n geri kalan\u0131na ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6ncesinde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yorumlara bak\u0131l\u0131rsa bu \u201chatay\u0131\u201d yapmamas\u0131 gerekiyordu. Tam olaya m\u00fcdahale edip ona timsahlar\u0131n havada ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u201c\u00f6\u011fretecektim\u201d ki i\u00e7imden bir ses beni d\u00fcrtt\u00fc; \u201cD\u00fczeltme s\u00fcpermen, \u00f6nce bir dinle!\u201d Aram\u0131zda ge\u00e7en konu\u015fmay\u0131 k\u0131saca \u00f6zetleyim:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c- \u2026. sence timsah nerede ya\u015far?<br \/>\n\u2013 Nehirlerde ya\u015far \u00f6\u011fretmenim\u2026<br \/>\n\u2013 Bravo sana, \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir cevap. Ama burada timsah\u0131 havaya koydu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Timsah suda ya\u015f\u0131yorsa onu neden havaya koydun?<br \/>\n\u2013 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc suda bal\u0131k var.<br \/>\n\u2013 Efendim?<br \/>\n\u2013 \u00d6\u011fretmenim sen de hi\u00e7 anlam\u0131yorsun, timsah\u0131 suya koyarsam T\u0130MSAH BALI\u011eI YER!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu konu\u015fma bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7iminin bizden her zaman \u00e7ok daha farkl\u0131, yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve u\u00e7suz bucaks\u0131z oldu\u011funun bir kan\u0131t\u0131 olarak haf\u0131zamda yer etti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklara k\u0131yasla biz yeti\u015fkinler \u00e7ok daha kal\u0131pla\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz. O y\u00fczden onlar\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok fazla \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermemiz gerekiyor. Biz sadece y\u00fczeydeki davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz, ama <strong>\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n i\u00e7 sesini duyabilmek i\u00e7in kulaklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>sonuna kadar a\u00e7arak dinlememiz gerekiyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7evremdeki pek \u00e7ok anne babada, hatta \u00f6\u011fretmende g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fey ise \u015fu: D\u00fczeltiyoruz! \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn \u201chatalar\u0131n\u0131\u201d yapar yapmaz, vakit kaybetmeden ve onlar\u0131 dinlemeden d\u00fczeltiyoruz. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u201cdo\u011fruyu \u00f6\u011fretme\u201d iste\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc<br \/>\nrahat b\u0131rakm\u0131yor. Neyse ki farkl\u0131 \u00f6rnekler de var\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarda yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k \u00fczerine d\u00fczenledi\u011fim bir anne-baba e\u011fitiminde yukar\u0131daki timsah hikayesini anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir sonraki hafta e\u011fitimin devam\u0131nda bir baba ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir olay\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131. \u0130\u015ften eve geldi\u011finde 2 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki o\u011fluna g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini<br \/>\nsordu\u011funu ve o s\u0131rada o\u011flunun \u00f6n\u00fcndeki pet \u015fi\u015feyi yere att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131. Yorgun arg\u0131n i\u015ften gelmi\u015f, pet \u015fi\u015feden d\u00f6k\u00fclen sular hal\u0131y\u0131 \u0131slatm\u0131\u015fken o\u011fluna k\u0131zmak yerine derin bir nefes ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. \u0130yi ki de \u00f6yle yapm\u0131\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hen\u00fcz zar zor konu\u015fan o\u011flu o g\u00fcn<br \/>\nannesiyle hamur oynam\u0131\u015f ve oklava kullanm\u0131\u015f. <strong>\u00c7ocuk pet \u015fi\u015feyi oklava gibi yaparak hamur a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tarif etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f.<\/strong> Adam bunu e\u015fi ak\u015fam \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla neler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ke\u015ffetmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cPeki ne yapal\u0131m, do\u011fruyu yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmeyelim mi?\u201d<\/em> Elbette ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za baz\u0131 do\u011frular\u0131, de\u011ferleri aktaraca\u011f\u0131z. Ama \u00f6nce bir dural\u0131m, derin nefes alal\u0131m, onlar\u0131 dinleyelim ve anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Hi\u00e7bir do\u011frunun kesin olarak do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hep<br \/>\nakl\u0131m\u0131zda tutal\u0131m. Onlar\u0131n sesine kulak verip kendi yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek yapal\u0131m bunu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ihtiyac\u0131 olan \u015fey, do\u011fruyu anlatmam\u0131z de\u011fil ke\u015ffetmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmam\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar en iyi kendi yapt\u0131klar\u0131 ke\u015fifler, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 anlaml\u0131 deneyimler sonucunda \u00f6\u011frenir. Bu y\u00fczden:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklara do\u011fruyu ke\u015ffetmeleri i\u00e7in zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n. Onlar\u0131n bizim kadar acelesi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na emin olabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<li>Onlar\u0131 can kula\u011f\u0131 ile dinleyin ve ne demek istedi\u011fini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6zlemleyin, onlar\u0131 anlayabilmek i\u00e7in sadece s\u00f6ylediklerini dinlemek yetmez.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, s\u00f6yledikleri ile ilgili bir yorum yapmadan \u00f6nce yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 olmamak i\u00e7in iki kere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/li>\n<li>Onlar\u0131n do\u011fruyu, yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131, ve daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffedecekleri ortamlar yarat\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Belki de en \u00f6nemlisi denemelerine, ke\u015ffetmelerine, hata yapmalar\u0131na ve hatalar\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011frenmelerine f\u0131rsat tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z say\u0131s\u0131z an var.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/marketing-office-working-business-33999\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">Photo by\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@pixabay?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">Pixabay<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/marketing-office-working-business-33999\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">\u00a0from\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/close-up-of-girl-writing-256468\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\">Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h6>Dijital Topuklar&#8217;da yaz\u0131lan yaz\u0131lar, yazar\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve fikirlerini yans\u0131tmakta olup, Dijital Topuklar&#8217;\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini temsil etmeyebilir.<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hen\u00fcz \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi burnunda bir \u00f6\u011fretmen aday\u0131 iken staja gitti\u011fim okullardan birinde bir aktivite yapt\u0131rmam gerekiyordu. \u00c7ocuklarla dolu bir s\u0131n\u0131fta neyi nas\u0131l yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 tam kestiremedi\u011fim o d\u00f6nemde uygulamas\u0131 kolay ve mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 basit bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma se\u00e7tim. \u00c7ok da yarat\u0131c\u0131 olmayan bir \u015fekilde- \u00e7ocuklardan hayvanlar\u0131 havada karada ve denizde ya\u015fayan hayvanlar olarak gruplamas\u0131n\u0131 istedim. \u00c7ocuklar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlarken, ben [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":45,"featured_media":8289,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[260,277,499],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8255"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/45"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8289"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}