Anadolu\u2019da do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir kad\u0131n olarak hep, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kad\u0131na olan d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ne zaman, nas\u0131l ve nerede ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merak etmi\u015fimdir. Bu konuyu de\u015feleyince ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan sonu\u00e7larsa biz kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in ne yaz\u0131k ki son derece \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bug\u00fcn hala a\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kad\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcleme politikas\u0131 \u00e7ok eskilere, ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok eskilere dayanmakta. Binlerce y\u0131l \u00f6ncesinde kad\u0131n Tanr\u0131\u00e7a\u2019ya sahip olan Anadolu topraklar\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 hayat\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcp, el \u00fcst\u00fcnde tutmaktayken erkek Tanr\u0131 inanc\u0131na sahip Bat\u0131 toplumlar\u0131n\u0131n siyasi \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck elde etmek u\u011fruna y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc karalama kampanyas\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kal\u0131yor ve ne yaz\u0131k ki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oluyor.<\/p>\n
Yakla\u015f\u0131k M.\u00d6 1200\u2019lerde Bat\u0131\u2019dan gelip Anadolu\u2019yu i\u015fgal eden Dor\u2019lar kendi Tanr\u0131lar\u0131 Zeus\u2019u Anadolu\u2019nun Tanr\u0131\u00e7a\u2019s\u0131na \u00fcst\u00fcn k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in ikisini evlendiriyorlar ve kad\u0131n\u0131 kocas\u0131n\u0131n arka plan\u0131nda kalmaya mecbur ediyorlar. O andan itibaren kad\u0131n hep fitneci, dedikoducu, ihtirasl\u0131, k\u0131skan\u00e7, kendini bilmez ve akli olarak yetersiz bir varl\u0131k olarak sembolize edilmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Antik Yunan mitolojisini ve e\u015f zamanl\u0131 di\u011fer co\u011frafya mitolojilerini inceledi\u011fimizde kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za hep ayn\u0131 sonu\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor: ‘Kad\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.’<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn halen s\u0131kl\u0131kla kullan\u0131lan \u201cPandora\u2019n\u0131n Kutusu\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Pandora, Tanr\u0131 Zeus\u2019un insanlar\u0131 cezaland\u0131rmak amac\u0131yla yarat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fi \u201cilk kad\u0131n insan\u201d olarak bilinir. Mitosa g\u00f6re Pandora\u2019n\u0131n yarat\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 onu m\u00fckemmel bir g\u00fczelli\u011fe sahip olarak tasarlam\u0131\u015flar ve bedenini ruh yerine bir \u201dk\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m\u201d ile donatm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Kalbineyse kin, nefret, haset gibi k\u00f6t\u00fcc\u00fcl duygular\u0131 yerle\u015ftirdikten sonra Zeus\u2019un kendisine \u201cSak\u0131n a\u00e7ma!\u201d diyerek verdi\u011fi kutuyla birlikte yery\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00f6ndermi\u015flerdir. Nihayetinde Pandora merak\u0131na yenik d\u00fc\u015ferek kutuyu a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ve nefret, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, keder, hastal\u0131k gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc olan ne varsa yery\u00fcz\u00fcne yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Antik Yunan mitolojisindeki bu kad\u0131n tasvirinin \u00e7ok benzerleri di\u011fer co\u011frafya mitolojilerinde, sonras\u0131nda ise yaz\u0131l\u0131-yaz\u0131s\u0131z dinlerde hep bir \u015fekilde kendine yer bulmu\u015f ve d\u00fcnya \u00fczerindeki kad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fte b\u00f6yle per\u00e7inlenmi\u015ftir. Kad\u0131n kendisine \u00e7izilen bu role mecbur edilmi\u015f ve kendisinin k\u00f6t\u00fc, eksik bir varl\u0131k oldu\u011funa inand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/strong> Y\u00fczy\u0131llar i\u00e7erisinde ise bu inan\u0131\u015f adeta kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren bir kehanet gibi kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bedensel g\u00fczellik \u00fczerinden bir yar\u0131\u015fa giri\u015fmelerine ve di\u011fer kad\u0131nlar\u0131 dedikoducu, i\u00e7ten pazarl\u0131kl\u0131, ihtirasl\u0131, eksik ak\u0131ll\u0131 gibi niteliklerin sahibi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcp onlar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fclemeleriyle sonu\u00e7lanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yani bizzat kad\u0131n, kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 haline gelmi\u015f, getirilmi\u015ftir. Bug\u00fcn halen hemcinslerimiz hakk\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sahip olmak, onlar\u0131 ac\u0131mas\u0131zca ele\u015ftirmek ve hatta canlar\u0131n\u0131 yakmak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcamak gibi a\u015fmakta zorlan\u0131lan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n hepsi genetik kodlar\u0131m\u0131za ve bilin\u00e7alt\u0131m\u0131za yerle\u015fmi\u015f \u2018kad\u0131nlar k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr\u2019<\/em> zihniyetinin bir sonucudur. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yine bir ba\u015fka kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ekememesi, k\u00f6t\u00fclemesi ve hatta k\u00f6stek olmas\u0131 i\u015fte b\u00f6yle bir \u00e7eli\u015fkinin \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bu \u00e7eli\u015fkinin fark\u0131nda olmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ancak ve ancak bu ger\u00e7eklikle y\u00fczle\u015febilirsek kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki \u00fc\u00e7 bin y\u0131ld\u0131r s\u00fcregelen gelenekle m\u00fccadele edebiliriz. Bug\u00fcn art\u0131k \u201c\u0136\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011filiz, eksik de\u011filiz, yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011filiz, g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek zorunda de\u011filiz, erkeklerle e\u015fitiz biz!\u201d<\/em> \u015feklindeki serzeni\u015flerimizi erkek hegemonyas\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0 y\u00fcz\u00fcne hayk\u0131racak kadar cesuruz bizler. Ama bu yetmez.<\/p>\n Kendimize \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutmal\u0131 ve di\u011fer kad\u0131nlar\u0131 bir rakip olarak de\u011fil de ayn\u0131 kaderden muzdarip birer \u201ck\u0131z karde\u015f\u201d olarak g\u00f6rmeyi ba\u015farabilmeliyiz \u00f6nce. Ancak bunu yapabilirsek \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yap\u0131\u015f\u0131p kalan kal\u0131plardan kurtulabilecek ve zihniyetlerdeki ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc ba\u015flatabilece\u011fiz. Ger\u00e7ek bir dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n, bir yabanc\u0131ya duyulan nedensiz sevginin ne demek oldu\u011funu ancak b\u00f6yle anlayabilecek ve d\u00fcnyaya de\u011fi\u015fmekten ba\u015fka \u00e7are b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte bunun i\u00e7in bir kad\u0131na ele\u015ftirel g\u00f6zle bakmak yerine onun art\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp takdir etmeyi, eksiklerini ya da farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurup ona k\u00f6stek olmak yerine varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ya\u015fama dair \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131 takdir edebilmeyi, ufac\u0131k bir s\u00f6zle, bak\u0131\u015fla belki bir dokunu\u015fla ona destek olabilmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmeli ve bunu s\u0131radan bir hale getirmeliyiz. Yaln\u0131z bu \u015fekilde Pandora’n\u0131n kutusunu kapat\u0131p hi\u00e7 varolmam\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na tarihin derinliklerine g\u00f6nderebiliriz. Bunu t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlara ve t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011fa bor\u00e7luyuz, dilerim ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oluruz.<\/p>\n \u2666<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Anadolu\u2019da do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir kad\u0131n olarak hep, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kad\u0131na olan d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ne zaman, nas\u0131l ve nerede ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merak etmi\u015fimdir. Bu konuyu de\u015feleyince ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan sonu\u00e7larsa biz kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in ne yaz\u0131k ki son derece \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bug\u00fcn hala a\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kad\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcleme politikas\u0131 \u00e7ok eskilere, ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok eskilere dayanmakta. 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