{"id":7856,"date":"2019-09-10T13:25:05","date_gmt":"2019-09-10T10:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=7856"},"modified":"2019-09-10T13:25:05","modified_gmt":"2019-09-10T10:25:05","slug":"nupelda-ve-ayaz-bu-topraklarda-cok-kolay-heba-edilen-fidanlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2019\/09\/nupelda-ve-ayaz-bu-topraklarda-cok-kolay-heba-edilen-fidanlar\/","title":{"rendered":"Nupelda ve Ayaz: Bu Topraklarda \u00c7ok Kolay Heba Edilen Fidanlar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ge\u00e7en haftalarda gelen haberle \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm, 2 minik y\u00fcre\u011fin topra\u011fa verili\u015f hikayesi ne kadar da ac\u0131kl\u0131 ve ne kadar s\u0131radan bizim i\u00e7in.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendi topraklar\u0131na may\u0131n d\u00f6\u015feyen ve karde\u015flerini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrmekten \u00e7ekinmeyen insanlar\u0131n co\u011frafyas\u0131nda ya\u015famak ne kadar ac\u0131… Bunu de\u011fi\u015ftirememek, o insanlar\u0131 bu topra\u011f\u0131n bereketini payla\u015fabilecek \u015fekilde tek y\u00fcrek yapamamak ise en \u00fczeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

‘Nupelda’ K\u00fcrt\u00e7e, ‘yeni \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7an veya yeni a\u00e7an tomurcuk<\/em>‘ demekmi\u015f, ne kadar ya\u015fam ile \u00f6zle\u015fen bir isim! Hep bu tomurcuk hali ile kalacak o minik y\u00fcrek bizim i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

‘Ayaz’; s\u00f6zl\u00fckteki anlam\u0131 ‘duru, p\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l havada \u00e7\u0131kan kuru, keskin so\u011fuk.<\/em>‘ P\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l hayalleri olan yavrunun bir anda att\u0131\u011f\u0131 ad\u0131m ile y\u00fcreklerimize ayaz ya\u015fatan kahrolas\u0131 durumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Neden ben” sorusu b\u00fcy\u00fck travmalarda, b\u00fcy\u00fck kay\u0131plarda insan\u0131n kendisine sordu\u011fu en kritik soru. “Neden ben bunlar\u0131 ya\u015famak zorunda kald\u0131m” diye devam eden sorular silsilesi. \u00d6nce inkar, sonra ac\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015fama sonra ise kabullenme ile devam eden psikolojik bir kabulleni\u015f hali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peki bu durumda “Neden biz?” sorusunu toplum olarak sorabiliyor muyuz? Yoksa olaya sadece \u00fcz\u00fclmek d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir soru veya eylem y\u00fcklemiyor muyuz? <\/strong>En kolay\u0131 bu oldu\u011fundan olabilir mi? Oysa \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm sorular sorarak ba\u015flar, soru sorduk\u00e7a durumu \u00f6zetler, yeni bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 kazan\u0131r ve yol haritas\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartabilirsin. Ama g\u00fcnl\u00fck tela\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kalan bizler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00fctopik bu ruh hali hep ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan eylem beklemek, \u00f6n\u00fcne haz\u0131r geldi\u011finde de ahkam kesmeye hak g\u00f6rmek hep al\u0131\u015fagelmi\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neden biz? Neden bu co\u011frafya? Neden bu topraklarda insanlar a\u00e7 ve ter\u00f6r kurban\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Verilen her kurban, yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f bir hayat ve hikaye, Sel\u00e7uk \u015eirin Hoca\u2019n\u0131n \u2018\u2019Bir T\u00fcrkiye Hayali\u2019\u2019 kitab\u0131nda dedi\u011fi gibi, ya\u015fanan her olay\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 taze tutmadan, basitle\u015ftirmek ve kan\u0131ksamak \u00e7ok bize \u00f6zg\u00fc. Art\u0131k bunu a\u015fman\u0131n ve her giden can\u0131n ard\u0131ndan yas tutup, sorgulamam\u0131z gerekiyor\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00fcnyam\u0131zdan kay\u0131p g\u00f6\u00e7en t\u00fcm ter\u00f6r kurbanlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmemi\u015f bir halkan\u0131n zinciri gibi s\u0131raland\u0131k\u00e7a, bizim ise sadece buna tan\u0131d\u0131k olmam\u0131z, su\u00e7a ortak olmakt\u0131r.\u00a0 T\u00fcm toplumsal \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler anneler ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n e\u011fitimi ile ilgili oldu\u011fundan \u00f6nce buradan ba\u015flanmal\u0131 sevgi \u00e7emberini olu\u015fturulmaya, sonras\u0131nda erkeklerin ha\u015fin sava\u015f \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duymay\u0131 b\u0131rakacakt\u0131r yeni gelen akl\u0131 ile kalbi dans etmeyi bilen nesiller\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ge\u00e7en haftalarda gelen haberle \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm, 2 minik y\u00fcre\u011fin topra\u011fa verili\u015f hikayesi ne kadar da ac\u0131kl\u0131 ve ne kadar s\u0131radan bizim i\u00e7in. Kendi topraklar\u0131na may\u0131n d\u00f6\u015feyen ve karde\u015flerini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrmekten \u00e7ekinmeyen insanlar\u0131n co\u011frafyas\u0131nda ya\u015famak ne kadar ac\u0131… Bunu de\u011fi\u015ftirememek, o insanlar\u0131 bu topra\u011f\u0131n bereketini payla\u015fabilecek \u015fekilde tek y\u00fcrek yapamamak ise en \u00fczeni. ‘Nupelda’ K\u00fcrt\u00e7e, ‘yeni […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":7857,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,41],"tags":[260,499,744],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7856"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7857"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}