Evrendeki di\u015fil enerjiler nedir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m, sonra zihnimden birer birer bu kelimeler ge\u00e7meye ba\u015flad\u0131, var m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z \u00d6znur\u2019un g\u00f6z\u00fcnden di\u015fil kodlamalara ufak bir yolculuk yapmaya\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
XX<\/strong>: Di\u015fi kromozomlar\u0131m\u0131z, burada bile kendine yetme durumu var, iki tane XX yan yana gelmi\u015f ve ‘var olmak i\u00e7in ben bene yeterim, \u00f6tesine ihtiya\u00e7 yok’<\/em> demi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu<\/strong>: G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde zengin ama bilin\u00e7siz ailelerde adeta minik pembi\u015f prensesler olarak yeti\u015ftirilen, \u00e7\u0131tk\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131m, hassas ve narin meleklerdir kimi zaman. Veya yoksulluk i\u00e7inde di\u011fer karde\u015flerinin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck annesi olma rol\u00fc bi\u00e7ilen, omuzlar\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 zor y\u00fckleri \u00e7ocuklukta almas\u0131 beklenen minik y\u00fcreklerdir. Veya az\u0131nl\u0131ktaki bilin\u00e7li ailede cinsiyet kavram\u0131 olmadan \u2018\u2019insan\u2019\u2019 olarak yeti\u015ftirilen yavrulard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gen\u00e7 k\u0131z:<\/strong> Bu d\u00f6nemde ailenin rol\u00fc azal\u0131r ve toplum kendini s\u00f6z sahibi hisseder. Toplum bask\u0131s\u0131na maruz kalan, eril olan\u0131 tahrik etmeme g\u00f6revi verilmi\u015f olan, giyimden konu\u015fmaya, sa\u00e7 telinden, hamileli\u011fine kadar uzanan bir \u00e7ok konuda kurallar silsilesine uymas\u0131 beklenen potansiyel anne adaylar\u0131d\u0131r!! Kendi bedeni hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6z sahibi de\u011fildir, bekaret k\u0131skac\u0131 ile s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, edepsiz yaftalar\u0131 ise \u00e7ok kolay yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131labilir bu \u2018\u2019insan\u2019\u2019a, erillerin \u2018\u2019insano\u011flu\u2019\u2019 oldu\u011fu unutularak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad\u0131n<\/strong>: Di\u015fil enerjinin ve varolu\u015funun en fark\u0131nda olundu\u011fu, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zl\u0131kla annelik aras\u0131 bedenin ke\u015ffedildi\u011fi, d\u00fcnyaya ve evrene kafa yoruldu\u011fu, kendine bi\u00e7ilen g\u00f6revlere itiraz edebilme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahip olundu\u011fu veya boyun e\u011fmeye mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131p kolunun kanad\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamand\u0131r. Bu d\u00f6nemdeki halimiz sonraki hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n mihenk ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur, k\u0131r\u0131lma noktas\u0131d\u0131r bizim i\u00e7in. Evlilik mi? \u00c7ocuk mu? \u0130\u015f mi ev mi? T\u00fcm kritik sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131n verildi\u011fi yerdir. Bu d\u00f6nem sonras\u0131ndaki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fler ve fark edi\u015fler hep \u00e7ok ac\u0131l\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anne<\/strong>: Can\u0131n\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131 ile birlikte hem mental hem de fiziksel olarak yeniden do\u011fars\u0131n adeta. Art\u0131k hayat\u0131n eskisi gibi olamayaca\u011f\u0131, kendine ve arkana bakmadan, yeni bir hayat\u0131 \u015fekillendirme heyecan\u0131 ile t\u00fcm enerjini \u00f6n\u00fcne aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u0131llard\u0131r. Yeniden do\u011fmak, sanc\u0131l\u0131 ve y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, bir \u00fcst modeline evriliyorsun hissini verir. Yorgunluk, uykusuzluk ve yavruna korumak i\u00e7in i\u00e7inde bast\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n endi\u015fe has\u0131la olur t\u00fcm bedenine ama di\u015fil enerjinin g\u00fcc\u00fc t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 kald\u0131rmaya yetecek \u015fekilde kodlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Atlas gibi d\u00fcnyay\u0131 omuzlar\u0131nda ta\u015f\u0131yacak kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama \u00fcrkek bir g\u00fcvercin kadar k\u0131r\u0131lgan olunur. Tezatlar aras\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli gelip gidilir, \u00e7ocu\u011funa yetmek i\u00e7in var g\u00fcc\u00fcn ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p, kendine zaman ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in bezgin ve k\u00fcsk\u00fcn olunabilir. Ortay\u0131 bulmak, kendi annelik kitab\u0131n\u0131 el yaz\u0131n ile yazmak gibidir, tarifi, 10 ad\u0131m k\u0131lavuzu veya iksiri yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anneanne&Babaanne: Y<\/strong>avrunun yavrusu, en tatl\u0131 meyven\u2026 Zaman\u0131n yava\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131, kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n el etek \u00e7ekti\u011fi, yeni hayat gailesine ihtiya\u00e7 olundu\u011fu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p geliveren minik y\u00fcrek ile dingin atan y\u00fcre\u011fin kavu\u015ftu\u011fu en g\u00fczel ebeveynlik zaman\u0131. Aralar\u0131ndaki payla\u015f\u0131m tam da biyolojideki simbiyotik ili\u015fki tan\u0131m\u0131na uyan, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 faydalanma ile m\u00fcthi\u015f g\u00fczel zaman ge\u00e7irilen, birine ya\u015fam enerjisi sa\u011flarken di\u011ferine ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6\u011freten zaman \u00fcst\u00fc anlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00fcnya<\/strong>: 8 dakika 20 saniyede kendisine ula\u015fan g\u00fcne\u015f \u0131\u015f\u0131nlar\u0131 ile enerjisini sa\u011flayan, \u00fczerindeki say\u0131s\u0131z t\u00fcre bunun adil da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli kendi etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6n\u00fcp duran ve \u015fark\u0131da ge\u00e7ti\u011fi gibi “koca ya\u015fl\u0131 \u015fi\u015fko d\u00fcnya<\/em>“d\u0131r. Onu didikleyen, oyan, kirleten bize kar\u015f\u0131 her yeni g\u00fcn yeni bir \u015fans tan\u0131r o ko\u015fulsuz sevgisi ile. 10 bin y\u0131ll\u0131k d\u00f6ng\u00fclerle ‘art\u0131k ben bu kadar\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131ram\u0131yorum, yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131n beni’ diyerek i\u00e7inde depremler ya\u015fay\u0131p, alevler p\u00fcsk\u00fcrt\u00fcp, sonras\u0131nda sakinle\u015ferek buzul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131 girip kendini toplayan en b\u00fcy\u00fck di\u015fil kodlamalardan biridir benim g\u00f6z\u00fcmde\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Varolu\u015fun mucizesi di\u015fil enerjinin t\u00fcm evreni sar\u0131p sarmalay\u0131p, iyile\u015ftirmesi dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u25c6<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Evrendeki di\u015fil enerjiler nedir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m, sonra zihnimden birer birer bu kelimeler ge\u00e7meye ba\u015flad\u0131, var m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z \u00d6znur\u2019un g\u00f6z\u00fcnden di\u015fil kodlamalara ufak bir yolculuk yapmaya\u2026 XX: Di\u015fi kromozomlar\u0131m\u0131z, burada bile kendine yetme durumu var, iki tane XX yan yana gelmi\u015f ve ‘var olmak i\u00e7in ben bene yeterim, \u00f6tesine ihtiya\u00e7 yok’ demi\u015f. 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