{"id":7543,"date":"2019-02-21T15:21:06","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T12:21:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=7543"},"modified":"2019-02-21T15:21:06","modified_gmt":"2019-02-21T12:21:06","slug":"iletisimde-kalbin-etkisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2019\/02\/iletisimde-kalbin-etkisi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130leti\u015fimde kalbin etkisi"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><em>\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda kad\u0131n olmak\u2026 Yakas\u0131n\u0131n rengi, mevkisi, maa\u015f\u0131, konumu ne olursa olsun, kad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131nda var olmas\u0131 bir s\u00fcper kahramanl\u0131k hikayesi gibi.<\/em><\/h3>\n<p>E\u011fitiminiz, meslek se\u00e7iminiz gibi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte b\u0131rak\u0131lan kilometre ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 in\u015fa etmekle ba\u015flar bu s\u00fcper kahramanl\u0131k hikayesi. Bu d\u00f6nemde, se\u00e7imlerin de\u011feri anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, bunlar i\u00e7in ne kadar emek verdi\u011finiz hesaplan\u0131r. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131ndaysan\u0131z hem birey, hem kad\u0131n, hem de \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan olma hallerini ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 ya\u015fars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Evlilik karar\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131zla \u00f6zel hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6pr\u00fc g\u00f6revi yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u201cevimiz nerede olsun?\u201d merak\u0131ndan daha \u00f6nce gelir. Gelmelidir de\u2026 Zira bu karar\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili i\u015f yerinize a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmak durumundas\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. <em>\u201cBu karar\u0131n\u0131zda ciddi misiniz?\u201d \u201cEvlendikten sonra \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam edecek misiniz?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman\u0131 gelip \u00e7att\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, el y\u00fckseltilebilir ve konu balay\u0131na gelebilir. Balay\u0131 i\u00e7in izin kullanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z haftan\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir etkinli\u011fe denk gelmesi s\u00f6z konusuysa, sizden balay\u0131 ortam\u0131n\u0131 ofise \u00e7evirmeniz hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeden istenebilir. <strong>Gelen iste\u011fi dinlerken siz k\u0131zar\u0131r, s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ama kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemekten hi\u00e7 gocunmaz.<\/strong> Aslolan i\u015f hayat\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilirlik gibi \u00f6nemli bir kavram bile b\u00f6ylesi durumlarda kullan\u0131lan anlams\u0131z bir kavrama d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u2026<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnd\u00fc, balay\u0131yd\u0131, evlilik hayat\u0131yd\u0131 derken zaman ilerler. Y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fczde m\u00fcthi\u015f bir mutluluk, bir g\u00fcn i\u015fe gidersiniz ve hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylersiniz. <strong>Sizi kutlayanlar hemencecik ka\u00e7 ay daha burada olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp parmak hesab\u0131 yapar.<\/strong> Hem de g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcze baka baka\u2026 Bakal\u0131m hamileli\u011fin \u00f6nemli bir i\u015fe denk geliyor mu? &#8220;Elindeki i\u015fleri yava\u015f yava\u015f ekip arkada\u015f\u0131na devret&#8221; \u00f6nerileri artar. Siz yokmu\u015fsunuz gibi planlar yap\u0131l\u0131r. Sizin do\u011fum izninde olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zamanlar i\u00e7in h\u00fcz\u00fcn duyman\u0131za \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Oysaki siz ayn\u0131 ki\u015fisinizdir. De\u011fi\u015fen sadece her g\u00fcn git gide b\u00fcy\u00fcyen karn\u0131n\u0131z ve artan, y\u00fckselen hormonlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Do\u011fumu yapars\u0131n\u0131z, ne zaman i\u015fe d\u00f6nece\u011finiz sorulur. Sorulsun elbette ama yeri ve zaman\u0131 da \u00f6nemli de\u011fil midir bu sorunun? \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken \u00e7ok da \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funuz hissettirilmezken, kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bebe\u011finizle kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlar\u0131n birileri taraf\u0131ndan ac\u0131mas\u0131zca hesaba tutuldu\u011funuzu duyars\u0131n\u0131z. Sadece duymakla kalmaz, hissedersiniz de\u2026 <strong>Annelik gibi bir mertebeye y\u00fckselmi\u015fsinizdir, yani k\u0131ymeti pek bilinmeyen bir krall\u0131\u011f\u0131n krali\u00e7esisinizdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00fct izinleri i\u015flere, s\u00fct di\u015fleri uykusuz gecelere, anne ile bebe\u011fin kitaplarda da yazan o kaliteli ge\u00e7irilmesi s\u00f6ylenen zaman dilimleri kabusa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bebek a\u011flar, siz a\u011flars\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcr, \u00e7ocuk uyur, \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fir\u2026 Kad\u0131n m\u0131y\u0131m, anne miyim, ilkokulda sa\u00e7\u0131 \u00f6r\u00fclen o minik k\u0131z m\u0131y\u0131m diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr durursunuz. Kafalar kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r, i\u015fler kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes sizden y\u00fczde y\u00fcz performans bekler. Olimpiyatlardaki t\u00fcm oyunlardan alt\u0131n madalya bekler gibi. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fcd\u00fcr diye soran olmaz. Neden sorulsun ki, o sizin sorununuzdur.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi i\u00e7in sizi arayan insan kaynaklar\u0131 uzman\u0131, sabah erkenden sizi m\u00fclakata \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rabilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fumu okula b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131m, farkl\u0131 bir saat belirleyebilir miyiz sorunuza ge\u00e7i\u015ftirme bir cevap verebilir. M\u00fclakata gitmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011fumu okuluna nas\u0131l b\u0131rakabilirim sorusunu kendinize bile sormaman\u0131z beklenir. Y\u0131llarca sabah\u0131n karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda i\u015f yerinde masan\u0131zda olman\u0131z\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi yoktur art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ifadesi hep iyi hissettirmi\u015ftir. Genelde bu t\u00fcr ya\u015fan\u0131lan olaylar\u0131n i\u00e7erisinde kad\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funun olmas\u0131 da \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Anne olan kad\u0131n, anne olan di\u011fer kad\u0131n\u0131 anlamak istemez. Kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, korkular\u0131n\u0131, heyecan\u0131n\u0131, co\u015fkusunu en \u00e7ok anlayaca\u011f\u0131 o kad\u0131nlar, o g\u00fcnlerde sertle\u015fir. G\u00f6kku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 gibi rengarenk olmas\u0131 gereken y\u00fcrekler hortum yarat\u0131r, kas\u0131rgaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, yak\u0131p y\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130leti\u015fimin kalbe ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/strong> Duyulmaya, hissedilmeye, hayata ge\u00e7irilmeye hatta ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7erisinde b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fik bir bi\u00e7imde varolmaya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Renklerini hep ya\u015fatan, duygular\u0131yla daha da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131nda artmas\u0131, giderek \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131 ve y\u00fcreklere dokunmas\u0131 dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2666<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda kad\u0131n olmak\u2026 Yakas\u0131n\u0131n rengi, mevkisi, maa\u015f\u0131, konumu ne olursa olsun, kad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131nda var olmas\u0131 bir s\u00fcper kahramanl\u0131k hikayesi gibi. E\u011fitiminiz, meslek se\u00e7iminiz gibi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte b\u0131rak\u0131lan kilometre ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 in\u015fa etmekle ba\u015flar bu s\u00fcper kahramanl\u0131k hikayesi. Bu d\u00f6nemde, se\u00e7imlerin de\u011feri anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, bunlar i\u00e7in ne kadar emek verdi\u011finiz hesaplan\u0131r. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131ndaysan\u0131z hem birey, hem kad\u0131n, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":86,"featured_media":7545,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,41],"tags":[101,260,405,431,440,499,603],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7543"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/86"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7543"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7543\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}