Bundan be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine kadar herhangi bir gerek\u00e7e g\u00f6sterememe ra\u011fmen \u00f6zellikle ya\u015fayan yerli yazarlara kar\u015f\u0131, k\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131ma inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u00f6nyarg\u0131ya sahiptim. Yerli yazar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u2018\u00e7ok satanlar\u2019 listesinde olmas\u0131 ya da ger\u00e7ekten \u2018iyi yaz\u0131yor\u2019 olmas\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131m\u0131 k\u0131rmak i\u00e7in yeterli de\u011fildi. Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ay \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim bir yazar\u0131n s\u00f6yle\u015fisinde bilin\u00e7alt\u0131mdakileri a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kararak sesli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme f\u0131rsat\u0131m oldu.<\/p>\n
\u201cYerli yazarlara ar\u015f\u0131 neden \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131yd\u0131m bilmiyorum. San\u0131r\u0131m k\u0131skan\u0131yordum onlar\u0131, evet evet hem de \u00e7ok k\u0131skan\u0131yordum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben de yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n kitapla\u015farak okuyucuyla bulu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyordum ancak bunu yapam\u0131yordum, onlar yapabiliyordu.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n \u2018Elinden tutan kuvvetli birileri, y\u00fcksek yerlerde tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131n yoksa kitap \u00e7\u0131karamazs\u0131n, hasbelkader \u00e7\u0131karsan bile ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamazs\u0131n. E\u011fer biri yazd\u0131klar\u0131yla dikkat \u00e7ekiyorsa, onu arkas\u0131ndan itekleyen birileri vard\u0131r\u2019 \u015feklinde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131ma takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m harika bir kulp vard\u0131. O insanlar\u0131n \u2018ger\u00e7ekten\u2019 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmu\u015f olabilece\u011fi ihtimalini kabul etmektense b\u00f6yle bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmak, kendi \u2018ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131\u2019 daha kolay sindirmemi sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n \u0130lk kitab\u0131m \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda Instagram\u2019da on bin takip\u00e7im bile yoktu, bug\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7 kitab\u0131 raflarda olan bir yazar\u0131m. Yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n tek bir sat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 bile okumadan, \u201cSen kim oluyorsun da kitap yaz\u0131yorsun mesle\u011fin nedir? \u0130yi ki Instagram var her \u00f6n\u00fcne gelen de kitap \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor\u201d<\/em> minvalindeki ele\u015ftirilerin hedefi olunca, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte tak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m tavr\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan sebepleri daha iyi anlad\u0131m. Hayat\u0131m hakk\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir fikre sahip olmayan insanlar, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m kitap haline gelene kadar hangi yollardan ge\u00e7ti\u011fimi bilmeden dikenli s\u00f6zlerle yaralamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabiliyorlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bunu \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131yorum; zaman\u0131nda \u2018ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131ma\u2019 uydurdu\u011fum k\u0131l\u0131f\u0131n ta kendisi de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n \u015eimdi gelelim zurnan\u0131n z\u0131rtlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, i\u015flerin z\u0131vanadan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yere. Valla ya, iyi ki bi’ Instagram var. Yoksa nas\u0131l ak\u0131t\u0131rd\u0131k kalbimizdeki zehri? Zihnimizdeki irini nas\u0131l bo\u015falt\u0131rd\u0131k? Biz bunca y\u0131l orta yerimizden \u00e7atlamadan nas\u0131l ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131z hayret do\u011frusu. Sa\u011fol Instagram, sayende bir t\u0131kla kurtuluyoruz i\u00e7imizdeki katrandan. \u00c7ok mu sert gidiyorum acaba katran, irin mirin? Yok ya, bence az bile s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n Her nas\u0131lsa foto\u011fraf karesine k\u0131y\u0131dan k\u00f6\u015feden giriveren bo\u015f bir \u015farap \u015fi\u015fesinin verdi\u011fi yetkiye dayanarak, birileri hakk\u0131mda \u2018g\u00fcnahk\u00e2r ve k\u00f6t\u00fc anne\u2019<\/em> yaftas\u0131n\u0131 yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabiliyorsa,<\/p>\n \u2018Moda blogger\u2019 \u0131 olmayan, kendi halinde hayat\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131zca k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fan bir kad\u0131n olarak \u2018k\u0131yafetim nas\u0131l olmu\u015f, \u00e7antam yak\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f m\u0131?\u2019 diye sormad\u0131\u011f\u0131m halde giyimime ku\u015fam\u0131ma dil uzatma hakk\u0131n\u0131 kendinde bulabiliyorsa birileri,<\/p>\n G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcn her an\u0131n\u0131, evimin k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6\u015fesini payla\u015fmaz, e\u015fya ve ev dekorasyonumla ilgili insanlar\u0131n fikrini sormazken; \u00fcstelik evim\/zevkim hakk\u0131nda tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m insanlar\u0131n fikrini ger\u00e7ekten ama ger\u00e7ekten hi\u00e7 merak etmezken, amac\u0131 yaln\u0131zca kitap tan\u0131t\u0131m\u0131 olan foto\u011fraf karesinde g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir sandalyemin demodeli\u011finden dem vuruyorsa bir ba\u015fkas\u0131,<\/p>\n Sa\u00e7 rengim ya da makyaj\u0131m ya da ka\u015f\u0131m g\u00f6z\u00fcmle ilgili fikirlerini zerre \u00f6nemsemedi\u011fim gibi sormad\u0131\u011f\u0131m halde her f\u0131rsatta sa\u00e7\u0131ma, ba\u015f\u0131ma g\u00f6z\u00fcme dil uzatabiliyorsa di\u011feri,<\/p>\n Ramazan ay\u0131nda tatile gitmeyi tercih ettim diye hadsizce benim M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 yarg\u0131lama hakk\u0131n\u0131 kendinde bulabiliyorsa \u00f6teki, kusura bakma ama katran ne ki, az bile s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum ben.<\/p>\n Sokakta, \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131da ya da misafirlikte kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131 kolundan tutup \u2018ka\u015f\u0131n \u00e7ok i\u011fren\u00e7 hi\u00e7 olmam\u0131\u015f, bu pantolonun alt\u0131na b\u00f6yle mi ayakkab\u0131 giyilir zevksiz, bu hal\u0131n\u0131n modas\u0131 ge\u00e7eli bin y\u0131l oldu neden de\u011fi\u015ftirmiyorsun, burnun yamuk yapt\u0131rsana’ diyebiliyor musun? Peki Instagram\u2019da s\u0131rf bir t\u0131kla eri\u015febiliyorsun diye tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlar\u0131n hayat ve tercihlerine neden dil uzat\u0131yorsun? \u201cEle\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k de\u011filsen burada ne i\u015fin var payla\u015fma o zaman\u201dc\u0131lar i\u00e7in ben de \u201chay\u0131r efendim sen dilini tutmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freneceksin, ele\u015ftiri ile hadsizlik aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 \u00f6\u011freneceksin\u201d demek istiyorum.<\/p>\n Her g\u00fcn \u015fahs\u0131ma yap\u0131lan \u201cs\u00f6z\u00fcmona\u201d ele\u015ftirilere g\u00fcl\u00fcp ge\u00e7iyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu hareketin alt\u0131nda yatan sebebi biliyorum. \u00dcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ve duyars\u0131z kalamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m husus \u015fu; bu insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu \u201canne\u201d, yani \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftiriyorlar. Onlar\u0131n yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar yar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcyerek toplumun i\u00e7ine kar\u0131\u015facak. Ben ve benim gibi; duyarl\u0131, sayg\u0131l\u0131, nazik; insana, hayvana, do\u011faya sayg\u0131l\u0131, k\u0131sacas\u0131 \u2018insan kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak\u2019 yeti\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z evlatlar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kacaklar. T\u0131rna\u011f\u0131na ta\u015f de\u011fse k\u0131yamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m yavrumu k\u0131racak, incitecekler. \u2018Siber zorba\u2019 ad\u0131 verilen bu tiplerin toplumun gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in ciddi tehdit olu\u015fturdu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. T\u00fcm iyi niyetimle azalarak bitmelerini, ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015flar\u0131na almalar\u0131n\u0131 diliyorum.<\/p>\n Selametle!<\/p>\n \u2666<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bundan be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine kadar herhangi bir gerek\u00e7e g\u00f6sterememe ra\u011fmen \u00f6zellikle ya\u015fayan yerli yazarlara kar\u015f\u0131, k\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131ma inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u00f6nyarg\u0131ya sahiptim. Yerli yazar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u2018\u00e7ok satanlar\u2019 listesinde olmas\u0131 ya da ger\u00e7ekten \u2018iyi yaz\u0131yor\u2019 olmas\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131m\u0131 k\u0131rmak i\u00e7in yeterli de\u011fildi. Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ay \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim bir yazar\u0131n s\u00f6yle\u015fisinde bilin\u00e7alt\u0131mdakileri a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kararak sesli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme f\u0131rsat\u0131m oldu. \u201cYerli yazarlara ar\u015f\u0131 neden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":112,"featured_media":7477,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,32,33],"tags":[421,499,602,683,701,702],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7476"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/112"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7476"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7476\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}