{"id":7405,"date":"2018-12-18T23:27:22","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T20:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=7405"},"modified":"2018-12-18T23:27:22","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T20:27:22","slug":"bir-kadin-guzellestirme-muessesesi-olarak-kuaforler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2018\/12\/bir-kadin-guzellestirme-muessesesi-olarak-kuaforler\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir Kad\u0131n G\u00fczelle\u015ftirme M\u00fcessesesi Olarak Kuaf\u00f6rler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Berber kelimesi Venedik\u00e7e &#8220;sakal tra\u015f\u0131 yapan kimse&#8221; anlam\u0131na gelen <em>barbi\u00e8r<\/em> s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden t\u00fcremi\u015f. Kuaf\u00f6r (<em>\u201ccoiffeur\u201d<\/em>) s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ise \u201csa\u00e7 kesimi\u201d anlam\u0131na gelen <em>coiffe<\/em> s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden. Etimolojik k\u00f6kenden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda: erkekler sakallar\u0131n\u0131, kad\u0131nlarsa sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kestirmek i\u00e7in bu ki\u015filere ba\u015fvuruyor. Asl\u0131nda insani basit bir ihtiyac\u0131n bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan giderilmesinden ba\u015fka bir konu de\u011fil. Gel gelelim kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu sa\u00e7 ve kuaf\u00f6r mevzusunun ba\u015fka derin anlamlar\u0131 da var.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u00e7 bir kad\u0131nl\u0131k\/di\u015filik sembol\u00fcd\u00fcr. Erkeklerin sa\u00e7\u0131 k\u0131sad\u0131r, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n uzun. Hatta kad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u00e7\u0131 uzun, akl\u0131 k\u0131sad\u0131r. (!) Toplumsal normlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan erke\u011fin k\u0131sa sa\u00e7l\u0131 oldu\u011fu kabul edilir. Kamu personeli k\u0131l\u0131k k\u0131yafet y\u00f6netmeli\u011finde erkek memurlar sa\u00e7 uzatamaz. Askeri mevzuattaki sa\u00e7 d\u00fczenlemelerine hi\u00e7 girmiyorum bile. Erke\u011fin sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n uzunlu\u011fu i\u015fini gere\u011fi gibi yapmas\u0131na engel mi te\u015fkil eder? Bu durumda kad\u0131n memurlar\u0131n sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 uzatmas\u0131 neden ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr? <strong>Yine cinsiyetsizle\u015ftirilmesi gereken bir mevzuat \u00f6rne\u011fi daha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bunun yan\u0131nda sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 emanet etti\u011finiz kuaf\u00f6rlerin ekserisi erkektir. Toplumsal cinsiyet anlam\u0131nda bu konu olduk\u00e7a ilgin\u00e7. <strong>Bir taraftan tamamen kad\u0131n bask\u0131n bir sekt\u00f6rde yer alan, esasen mevcut kal\u0131plar dahilinde hi\u00e7 de \u201cerke\u011fe ait\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir alanda, ciddi bir erkek dominasyonu vard\u0131r.<\/strong> Herhangi bir kuaf\u00f6r salonuna girin, sa\u00e7larla ilgilenen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131n\u0131n erkek oldu\u011funu fark edersiniz. Sa\u00e7 ciddi bir meseledir. A\u011fda salonlar\u0131nda manik\u00fcr yap\u0131labilir ama sa\u00e7 konusuna girilemez, sa\u00e7 uzmanl\u0131k ister. Bu kadar kad\u0131n odakl\u0131 bir meslekte dahi daha \u00fcst pozisyonda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan erkektir.<\/p>\n<p>Kuaf\u00f6rler her \u015feyden \u00f6nce birer iktidar odaklar\u0131d\u0131r. Kad\u0131n olarak sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, ka\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, d\u00fczenli olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcyen, de\u011fi\u015fen, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fen t\u00fcm uzuvlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bir profesyonele emanet etmeniz beklenir. Yine pek tabii, kad\u0131n bedeninin toplumsal in\u015fas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar.<strong> Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u201cg\u00fczelli\u011fi\u201d \u00fczerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r kuaf\u00f6rler. Bu g\u00fczellik alg\u0131s\u0131 da kad\u0131n\u0131n kendisini nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fi de\u011fil \u201cnas\u0131l olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi\u201d \u00fczerine kurulur muhakkak.<\/strong> Sezonun moda kesimleri, moda renkleri, hatta moda bak\u0131mlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Kendinizi uydurman\u0131z gereken kal\u0131p g\u00fcncellenen \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Tek t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131n ucuna yap\u0131lan nazar boncuklar\u0131, do\u011fru renk tonunu tutturmak i\u00e7in defaatle ve saatlerce zaman ayr\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken seanslar, ka\u015f boyalar\u0131, kirpik permalar\u0131 hep kad\u0131nlara sunulur. Bu hizmetlerin pek \u00e7o\u011fu da erkekler taraf\u0131ndan geli\u015ftirilir. Berberlerde erkeklere <em>\u201csa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n u\u00e7lar\u0131 \u00e7ok k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, nas\u0131l bak\u0131m yap\u0131yorsun\u201d<\/em> dendi\u011fini duymazs\u0131n\u0131z. Kad\u0131n bedenine y\u00f6neltilen bu \u201cd\u00fczeltilmesi gereken kusur\u201d alg\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerinden beden in\u015fa s\u00fcreci ba\u015flar. Daha da \u00f6nemlisi bu s\u00fcreci erkekler ba\u015flat\u0131r, erkekler y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6te yandan kuaf\u00f6rlerde sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131ran kad\u0131nlara erkek kuaf\u00f6r taraf\u0131ndan bir iltifat serisi ba\u015flar. Hatta biten sa\u00e7, salondaki di\u011fer erkek kuaf\u00f6rlerin de onay\u0131na sunulur. O erkek kuaf\u00f6r\u00fcn de<em> \u201caa \u00e7ok g\u00fczel oldu, bu sa\u00e7 size \u00e7ok yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u201d<\/em> iltifatlar\u0131 ile kahraman\u0131m\u0131z u\u011furlan\u0131r. Kad\u0131n kuaf\u00f6rlerinde ekseri erkeklerin \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor olmas\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6yle bir i\u015f tan\u0131m\u0131ndan da kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 san\u0131yorum. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendilerini \u201cerkeklere be\u011fendirme\u201d kayg\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerinden olu\u015fmu\u015f bir \u00f6n kabul\u00fcn sonucu.<\/p>\n<p>Gariptir ki s\u0131k s\u0131k kuaf\u00f6re giden, devaml\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren kad\u0131nlar\u0131n depresyonda oldu\u011fu sonucuna var\u0131l\u0131r. <strong>Kuaf\u00f6re gitmek kad\u0131n\u0131n \u201ckendisini \u015f\u0131martmas\u0131\u201d olarak alg\u0131lan\u0131r bir\u00e7ok halde.<\/strong> Bu t\u00fcmevar\u0131mdan anlar\u0131z ki, s\u0131k s\u0131k \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lmaya ihtiya\u00e7 duyan kad\u0131n depresyondad\u0131r. \u201cHer \u015feyin bir dozu var.\u201d Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u201cdi\u015filik bak\u0131m\u0131\u201d ad\u0131na \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015feni yapmas\u0131 kafi miktarda oldu\u011fu m\u00fcddet\u00e7e alk\u0131\u015flan\u0131r, toplumsal g\u00fczellik normlar\u0131na kendini uydurdu\u011funda takdir edilir. Fazlas\u0131 ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fclmez.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n ucu bile k\u0131r\u0131lan, ka\u015f\u0131 bile k\u00fcsen narin kad\u0131nlar yaratan kuaf\u00f6rler cennetinden, dedikodulu berber ortamlar\u0131na selam olsun.<\/p>\n<p>\u2666<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Berber kelimesi Venedik\u00e7e &#8220;sakal tra\u015f\u0131 yapan kimse&#8221; anlam\u0131na gelen barbi\u00e8r s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden t\u00fcremi\u015f. Kuaf\u00f6r (\u201ccoiffeur\u201d) s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ise \u201csa\u00e7 kesimi\u201d anlam\u0131na gelen coiffe s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden. Etimolojik k\u00f6kenden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda: erkekler sakallar\u0131n\u0131, kad\u0131nlarsa sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kestirmek i\u00e7in bu ki\u015filere ba\u015fvuruyor. Asl\u0131nda insani basit bir ihtiyac\u0131n bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan giderilmesinden ba\u015fka bir konu de\u011fil. Gel gelelim kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu sa\u00e7 ve kuaf\u00f6r [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":7406,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[15,39,41],"tags":[115,499,504,756],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7405"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7405"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7405\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}