{"id":7339,"date":"2018-11-28T10:53:16","date_gmt":"2018-11-28T07:53:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=7339"},"modified":"2018-11-28T10:53:16","modified_gmt":"2018-11-28T07:53:16","slug":"dijital-topuklarin-ardindan-yalniz-degildim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2018\/11\/dijital-topuklarin-ardindan-yalniz-degildim\/","title":{"rendered":"Dijital Topuklar\u2019\u0131n ard\u0131ndan: \u201cYaln\u0131z de\u011fildim\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

1 Kas\u0131m\u2019da Tutkunu Bul temas\u0131yla bir grup \u201ctutkusunu\u201d arayan insan (\u00e7o\u011fu kad\u0131n) Dijital Topuklar Zirvesi’nde bir aradayd\u0131k. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseten ve ilham veren onlarca hikaye dinledik. \u00d6ylesine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir sinerji olu\u015ftu ki g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda b\u0131raksalar eminim hepimiz ko\u015facakt\u0131k. Elif ve Perihan\u2019\u0131n ilmek ilmek emekle \u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bu g\u00fcn\u00fc tamamen payla\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Bu yaz\u0131da bende yer eden baz\u0131 al\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sizlere sunmak isterim. Sizlere de ilham olmas\u0131 dile\u011fiyle.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cL\u00fczumsuz bilgiler ansiklopedisi\u201d<\/strong>
\nG\u00fcne Dijital Do\u011fanlar\u0131 Anlamak<\/em> paneliyle ba\u015flad\u0131k. Onlar ad\u0131na \u201cahkam\u201d kesti\u011fimiz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendilerini ifade etmek i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir platformda yer almalar\u0131 ve ebeveynlerinin dijital al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131yla ilgili yorumlar yapmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok anlaml\u0131yd\u0131. Devam\u0131nda “Bir Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 Anlamak: Dijital Yerlilere Bak\u0131\u015f”<\/strong> panelinde Ku\u015fak Ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131s\u0131 Evrim Kuran da buna i\u015faret ederek; \u201c\u00e7ocuklardan \u00f6nce ebeveynlerini anlama\u201dn\u0131n ve d\u00f6ng\u00fcsel ilerlemenin ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fundan bahsetti. Sosyal becerilerin ve \u00f6zellikle d\u00fc\u015f kurma becerisinin e\u011fitim sisteminde yer almamas\u0131n\u0131n yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar\u0131n, anlam\u0131 oda\u011f\u0131na alan bu ku\u015fak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu ve anlam\u0131 kavratamazsak vasatl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kalaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konusunda uyard\u0131. \u201cBu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011fretebilece\u011fimizi de\u011fil birlikte \u00f6\u011fretebilece\u011fimize inan\u0131yorum.\u201d diye ekledi. Ayn\u0131 panelde E\u011fitimci\/Yazar M\u00fcjdat Ataman da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 \u201cl\u00fczumsuz bilgiler ansiklopedisi\u201d gibi doldurdu\u011fumuzu, ko\u015fan e\u011fitim sistemi i\u00e7erisinde durmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Asl\u0131nda \u201c\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n zaten durdu\u011funu, bizlerin duramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u201d ve \u00e7ocuklar derine inmeye haz\u0131rken bizim buna haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130nsan olman\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc kusurlu olmakt\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong>
\nArd\u0131ndan, Bir Erke\u011fin De\u011fi\u015fen Rol\u00fc<\/em> ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fmas\u0131na Serdar Kuzulo\u011flu, istatistiksel olarak \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmam\u0131za ra\u011fmen \u00e7ok mutsuz oldu\u011fumuzla ba\u015flad\u0131. Sorunumuzun \u00e7ok fazla \u015feye ve \u00e7ok fazla beklentiye sahip olmam\u0131zdan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ekledi. End\u00fcstriyel devrimine kadar \u00e7ocuk diye bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u201c\u00e7ocuk\u201d kavram\u0131n\u0131n sonradan icat edildi\u011fini de ekledi. Hepimizin anne, baba, \u00e7ocuk kimliklerinden daha fazlas\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu s\u00f6yleyerek e\u015fsiz oldu\u011fumuzun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi. Konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n sonunda kimliklerimizin \u00fczerinde bir hayat\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu unutmamam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlatarak, ideal insan diye bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ekledi.<\/p>\n

\u201cPayla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan sorumluyuz.\u201d<\/strong>
\nAdab-\u0131 Mua\u015feret 4.0<\/em> panelinde Bur\u00e7in Akg\u00fcn \u00dcnald\u0131, Styleboom Blog ve Sema \u00d6zpekmezci Sumeli, Sema\u2019n\u0131n Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Mutfa\u011f\u0131 kendi yolculuklar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131lar. Dijital ileti\u015fimde etik konusunda ikisinin de alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi en \u00f6nemli konu dijital yazarlar olarak payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131ndan sorumlu olduklar\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fiydi. Sema \u00d6zpekmezci Sumeli bunu \u201cger\u00e7ekten bu bedene girmeyen, kullanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi payla\u015fm\u0131yorum\u201d diyerek \u00f6zetledi. Blog yazarlar\u0131 olarak dil ve \u00fcslubun da \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ektiler ve samimiyetin \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirttiler.<\/p>\n

\u201cSabanc\u0131\u2019dan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131mda herkes \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc.\u201d<\/strong>
\nGiri\u015fimcilik Ne De\u011fildir<\/em> panelinde Qumpara Kurucu Orta\u011f\u0131 Nilhan G\u00fcr, giri\u015fimci olay\u0131m diye bir i\u015fe giri\u015fiyorsan\u0131z bunun do\u011fru olmayabilece\u011fini \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu durumda motivasyonu s\u00fcrekli k\u0131lman\u0131n \u00e7ok zor olabilece\u011finden bahsetti. Giri\u015fimciye D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u2019ten Yavuz \u00c7ingita\u015f, Sabanc\u0131\u2019dan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda herkesin \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6yleyerek, denememiz gerekti\u011fini i\u015faret etti. \u0130htiya\u00e7 ve probleme odakl\u0131 bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yaratma fikriyle i\u015fe ba\u015flarsan\u0131z ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmaman\u0131z i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir sebep olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da ekledi.<\/p>\n

\u201cArt\u0131k i\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fcnde daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fcne daha \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olacak.\u201d<\/strong>
\n\u0130\u00e7indeki Marka<\/em> ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fmas\u0131nda Borusan Grubu Kurumsal \u0130leti\u015fim Direkt\u00f6r\u00fc ve Kurumsal \u0130leti\u015fimciler Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 \u015eule Y\u00fcceb\u0131y\u0131k, \u201ciyi bir hikayeyi iyi bir \u015fekilde anlayabiliyorsan\u0131z ki\u015fisel bir markan\u0131z vard\u0131r\u201d diyerek, \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki be\u015f-on y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde i\u015f kavram\u0131n\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fece\u011fini, uzmanl\u0131k, fikir, beceri, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k ve d\u00fc\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti. Ki\u015fisel marka olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in be\u015f ad\u0131m s\u0131ralad\u0131:<\/p>\n

1-\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sahiplen, \u00f6zellikle tuhafl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n

2-\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kendi nedenini bul.<\/p>\n

3-\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 D\u00fc\u015f kur, hedef belirle, stratejini olu\u015ftur ve aksiyon plan\u0131n\u0131 yaz.<\/p>\n

4-\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sahici ol.<\/p>\n

5-\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Payla\u015f ve ilham ver.<\/p>\n

\u201cHi\u00e7bir ba\u015far\u0131 tesad\u00fcf de\u011fildir.\u201d<\/strong>
\nParalimpik y\u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc ve ressam S\u00fcmeyye Boyac\u0131 Vazge\u00e7meme Hikayesi\u2019nde hi\u00e7bir ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n tesad\u00fcf olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, 12 saatte y\u00fczme \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini ve etraf\u0131ndakilerin vazge\u00e7ip b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. \u201cSizi hayatta hep bezdirmek isteyenler olacak, as\u0131l i\u00e7inizdeki k\u00f6t\u00fc ki\u015fi var ya, \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z laz\u0131m, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan olmuyor.\u201d diyerek ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u201cBug\u00fcn\u00fcn karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131k\/belirsizlik esasl\u0131 hayat\u0131n\u0131 erkek zihniyle y\u00f6netmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil\u201d<\/strong>
\nDe\u011fi\u015fim Duygu ile Ba\u015flayacak ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fmas\u0131nda KONDA Ara\u015ft\u0131rma \u015eirketi Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc\u00a0Bekir A\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r, k\u00fcresel ara buzul d\u00f6nemde oldu\u011fumuzu, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bilgi toplumunun denetimini olu\u015fturamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in eski bildi\u011fi ulus devlet y\u00f6ntemiyle sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 savundu. Bu y\u00f6ntemlerle \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n getirdi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fen kurum ve kurallar\u0131n\u0131 kuramad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve toplumsal tarafta b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ihtiyac\u0131 i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu ekledi. Kad\u0131n meselesinin bu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn anahtar\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyerek, yeni hayat\u0131n sevgiye, umuda, i\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fcye ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n

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\u201cKad\u0131nlar olarak daha kendi di\u015fi enerjilerimizi sahiplenemiyoruz.\u201d<\/strong>
\nAktar\u0131lmayan Kad\u0131n Bilgeli\u011fi: Kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla Bar\u0131\u015fmak<\/em> panelinde Somatik Terapist Bilge \u0130nal akl\u0131m\u0131za yat\u0131r\u0131m yaparken kalbimizi kaybetti\u011fimizi ve kendi alt bilincimizde kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n zay\u0131fl\u0131kla e\u015fit oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsak e\u011fer bununla ilgili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak gerekti\u011fini belirtti. \u00a0Kontrol\u00fc di\u015fi ve erili birlikte kullanarak ve kendi duygular\u0131m\u0131zla ne \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuzu fark ederek geri alabilece\u011fimizi s\u00f6yledi. Jinekolojik Sorunlar Odakl\u0131 Bitkisel T\u0131p E\u011fiticisi\/Arvigo Terapisti Gizem Onay her \u015feyden \u00f6nce ki\u015finin kendi bedeniyle tan\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini aktard\u0131. \u201cHer \u015feyi; sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, cinselli\u011fi, anneli\u011fi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kontrol\u00fcne b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda nas\u0131l ya\u015fan\u0131r?\u201d diye ekledi.<\/p>\n

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\u201cYara izin kap\u0131nd\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong>
\nDamla \u00c7eliktaban ve Esra Sert Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar kitab\u0131n\u0131n yazar\u0131 Clarissa P. Estes\u2019ten ald\u0131klar\u0131 e\u011fitimden izlenimlerini payla\u015ft\u0131lar. Clarissa\u2019n\u0131n herkesin duvar\u0131n arkas\u0131na sakl\u0131 bir hazinesi ve her insan\u0131n do\u011fu\u015ftan yarat\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylediler. En b\u00fcy\u00fck tutkunun ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ac\u0131dan gelece\u011fini ve t\u00fcm ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, atalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ki de dahil olmak \u00fczere, yazman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi konusunda \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verdi\u011fini dile getirdiler. \u0130\u00e7sel engellerinize \u00e7ok sert bir \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131z, sizi yan yollara sapt\u0131ranlarla m\u00fccadele i\u00e7inde olman\u0131z ve hayatta ne iseniz onun tersi y\u00f6n\u00fcnde bir \u015feyler yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini aktard\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

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\u201cYaln\u0131z de\u011fildim.\u201d<\/strong>
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda\u00a0oyuncu ve insan haklar\u0131 savunucusu Ayta S\u00f6zeri kendi hikayesini kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n sorular\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda payla\u015ft\u0131. Bir kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 nas\u0131l ba\u015fard\u0131n\u0131z sorusuna yan\u0131t\u0131 ise g\u00fcn boyunca dinledi\u011fimiz hikayeleri bir arada tutan bir tutkal misaliydi: \u201cYaln\u0131z de\u011fildim.\u201d<\/p>\n

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1 Kas\u0131m\u2019da Tutkunu Bul temas\u0131yla bir grup \u201ctutkusunu\u201d arayan insan (\u00e7o\u011fu kad\u0131n) Dijital Topuklar Zirvesi’nde bir aradayd\u0131k. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseten ve ilham veren onlarca hikaye dinledik. \u00d6ylesine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir sinerji olu\u015ftu ki g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda b\u0131raksalar eminim hepimiz ko\u015facakt\u0131k. Elif ve Perihan\u2019\u0131n ilmek ilmek emekle \u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bu g\u00fcn\u00fc tamamen payla\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Bu yaz\u0131da bende yer eden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":7340,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,41],"tags":[58,69,185,246,260,499],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7339"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7339"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7339\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}