{"id":6914,"date":"2018-08-02T20:35:39","date_gmt":"2018-08-02T17:35:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/?p=6914"},"modified":"2018-08-02T20:35:39","modified_gmt":"2018-08-02T17:35:39","slug":"tek-care-erkeklesmek-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/2018\/08\/tek-care-erkeklesmek-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Tek \u00e7are: Erkekle\u015fmek (mi?)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in bi\u00e7ilmi\u015f i\u015fler vard\u0131r; esasen birinci dalga feminizmin tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 konulard\u0131r bunlar. Ne yaz\u0131k ki \u00fclkemizde g\u00fcncelli\u011fini korur. Kad\u0131n dedi\u011fin sekreter olur, hem\u015fire olur, \u00f6\u011fretmen olur (misal anaokulu \u00f6\u011fretmenli\u011fi muhakkak kad\u0131na yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r), <strong>bak\u0131m veren<\/strong> veya destek olan pozisyonlarda meslekler yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r kad\u0131na. Bu i\u015flerde kad\u0131n cinsiyetiyle \u201ckad\u0131n gibi\u201d var olman\u0131z yad\u0131rganmaz. <strong>Oysa bir de erkek i\u015fleri vard\u0131r; patron, y\u00f6netici, politikac\u0131 gibi pozisyonlarda &#8216;erkekle\u015fmeden&#8217; yer alamaz kad\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son y\u0131llardaki se\u00e7imleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce heyecan seviyesi g\u00f6rece y\u00fcksek bir se\u00e7im d\u00f6nemini geride b\u0131rakt\u0131k. Cumhurba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 adaylar\u0131 aras\u0131nda bir kad\u0131n vard\u0131 bu kez: Meral Ak\u015fener. T\u00fcrk siyasi tarihinin eski ba\u015fbakan\u0131 Tansu \u00c7iller\u2019den sonra ilk kez \u201c\u00fcst d\u00fczey\u201d pozisyona aday bir kad\u0131n vard\u0131 sahnede. D\u00fcnya siyasetini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde kad\u0131n politikac\u0131 olarak akl\u0131m\u0131za Margaret Thatcher gibi hep sert kad\u0131nlar gelir ki zaten <strong>\u201cdemir leydi\u201d<\/strong> olarak nam salm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Nedir bu kad\u0131nlardaki siyasi d\u00fcstur d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki ortak noktalar diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce toplumsal cinsiyet rol\u00fc sarmal\u0131 d\u00f6ner dola\u015f\u0131r aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dolan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-6916\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dijitaltopuklar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/5-885x500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"885\" height=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce, bu kad\u0131nlar serttir.<\/strong> Konu\u015fmalar\u0131, tav\u0131rlar\u0131, kulland\u0131klar\u0131 ifadeler; hep masaya yumru\u011fu koyan cinstendir. Elinin hamurlu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ispat etmeye gayret eder bu kad\u0131nlar. Giyimlerine bakacak olursak, \u00f6zellikle g\u00fcn\u00fcn modas\u0131 dahilinde analiz etmek daha kolay oldu\u011fundan Ak\u015fener\u2019e odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda en belirgin se\u00e7imi kravats\u0131z fakat son d\u00fc\u011fmesine kadar iliklenmi\u015f g\u00f6mlekleridir. K\u0131sa sa\u00e7l\u0131, g\u00f6mlekli, sert kad\u0131nlar. Cinselliklerini, kad\u0131n olduklar\u0131n\u0131 adeta <strong>gizlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan<\/strong> kad\u0131nlar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131na hayat\u0131n \u00f6znesi olmak yerine \u201cnesnesi\u201d olmak sal\u0131k verilmi\u015f, birinin kar\u0131s\u0131\/k\u0131z\u0131 olarak kendini tan\u0131mlamas\u0131 te\u015fvik edilmi\u015ftir. Kad\u0131nlar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamaz, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 erke\u011fin arkas\u0131ndaki kad\u0131n olabilirler. Kad\u0131nlar bu toplumda zihinleriyle de\u011fil ancak bedenleriyle g\u00fcndem olu\u015fturabilirler. Erkek zihniyetindeki medya bir kad\u0131n\u0131n zekas\u0131na, bilgi birikimine odaklanmaktan nedense \u00e7ekinir. Arama motoruna \u201c<em>kad\u0131n politikac\u0131lar<\/em>\u201d yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ilk sayfada \u00e7\u0131kan linklerin %70\u2019inde kad\u0131n siyaset\u00e7ilerin \u201cg\u00fczelli\u011finden\u201d bahsedildi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Kad\u0131na kendini ifade etmesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan iki yol g\u00f6sterilir: g\u00fczel olmak ya da olmamak. Gerisi erkek i\u015fidir.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa politika gibi derinlikli bir meseleyle u\u011fra\u015fmak ciddi bir zihin mesaisi gerektirir. Kad\u0131na toplumsal alg\u0131da yap\u0131lan yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma, t\u00fcm narinli\u011fi ve k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla domestik \u015fekilde ev i\u015flerini y\u00f6netmek oldu\u011fundan \u201csoka\u011fa\u201d \u00e7\u0131kan, hele hele \u00fcst d\u00fczey y\u00f6neticili\u011fe soyunan bir kad\u0131n i\u00e7in geriye erkekle\u015fmekten ba\u015fka \u00e7are kalmaz. <strong>2 kad\u0131n tan\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n 1 erkek tan\u0131\u011fa denk d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc dini hukuk ge\u00e7mi\u015finden gelen bir \u00fclkede kad\u0131n\u0131n denkli\u011fini her daim \u201cerkekle\u015ferek\u201d ispat etmesi gerekir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n politikac\u0131lar da kad\u0131na yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmayan di\u011fer mesleklerde i\u015ftigal eden kad\u0131nlar da g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda ayn\u0131 zorlu\u011fu ya\u015far. Sark\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131\u011fa u\u011framamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc olmamas\u0131, cinsel kimli\u011fini belli eden \u015fekilde giyinmemesi ve sert olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa kad\u0131nlar olarak sokaktay\u0131z, kimimiz t\u00fcm di\u015fili\u011fimizle kimimiz talep etti\u011fimiz di\u011fer \u015fekillerde. G\u00fcn gelecek, devran d\u00f6necek, kad\u0131nlar kad\u0131n olarak da var olabilecek. F\u0131rf\u0131rl\u0131 eteklere selam olsun.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u2666<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in bi\u00e7ilmi\u015f i\u015fler vard\u0131r; esasen birinci dalga feminizmin tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 konulard\u0131r bunlar. Ne yaz\u0131k ki \u00fclkemizde g\u00fcncelli\u011fini korur. Kad\u0131n dedi\u011fin sekreter olur, hem\u015fire olur, \u00f6\u011fretmen olur (misal anaokulu \u00f6\u011fretmenli\u011fi muhakkak kad\u0131na yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r), bak\u0131m veren veya destek olan pozisyonlarda meslekler yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r kad\u0131na. Bu i\u015flerde kad\u0131n cinsiyetiyle \u201ckad\u0131n gibi\u201d var olman\u0131z yad\u0131rganmaz. Oysa bir de erkek i\u015fleri [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6915,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[15,32,39],"tags":[336,464,691,753,755],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6914"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/perihanciragoz.com\/dijitaltopuklar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}